Girl who dances in a cage (cagekitten) wrote,
Girl who dances in a cage

Dear big tall long haired guy in the fedora at the club last night

Since you claimed to know me, maybe you read my LJ. So here's a thought:

If a girl doesn't recognize you, know you, or have any idea who you's probably not a good idea to grab her by the hair and pull her head back.

I'm used to guys in clubs having poor boundaries or not understanding that you don't touch a girl without her permission. So I didn't get upset, fight back, sick my friends on you or report you to the bouncer. And even if you were some one that I knew (as you claim) I don't have the kind of relationship with any of my friends or acquaintances in which I invite, enjoy, practice or allow any kind of rough man handling like that. Which leads me to believe that this wasn't a case of me not recognizing you, it was a case of you thinking I was some one else.

It's a dark club, mistakes happen. But please, the next time you make a mistake like that, at least apologize.

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