If a girl doesn't recognize you, know you, or have any idea who you are...it's probably not a good idea to grab her by the hair and pull her head back.
I'm used to guys in clubs having poor boundaries or not understanding that you don't touch a girl without her permission. So I didn't get upset, fight back, sick my friends on you or report you to the bouncer. And even if you were some one that I knew (as you claim) I don't have the kind of relationship with any of my friends or acquaintances in which I invite, enjoy, practice or allow any kind of rough man handling like that. Which leads me to believe that this wasn't a case of me not recognizing you, it was a case of you thinking I was some one else.
It's a dark club, mistakes happen. But please, the next time you make a mistake like that, at least apologize.