I managed to pull together from my closet yet another clothing/accessory combination into an outfit I've never worn before. At first it was going to be an old standby, a sexy halter top with a sheer ankle length skirt. But after I put on the top, the hot pants (that go underneath the skirt) and thigh high PVC boots, I got a look in the mirror. And I thought...hey now...that's really the mood I'm in! So instead of a skirt I wrapped a net see through beaded hip scarf around the hot pants and went to the club in the outfit. This time I didn't even make it out of coat check (i.e. 2.5 seconds after I took off my coat) before I began to get compliments. Yay!
Danced myself into a frenzy, had some wonderful exchanges with friends, left beaming. Made a mental note to talk to some one there later about installing a pole at the club. There's one regular girl there who very obviously, by her dancing and unusual moves, is a former exotic dancer. No doubt she could work a pole (if they had one) like a pro. Honestly, I don't understand why all clubs don't have dancing poles.