Girl who dances in a cage (cagekitten) wrote,
Girl who dances in a cage

follow up to a previous post

Some one mentioned that I never posted the answer to the situation in this post. For those who forgot, here was an actual situation, and then I asked folks to post with their response on how they would handle it:

"Stan came home from work one evening to find his youngest son, Tim, kicking and screaming on the living room floor. He was to start kindergarten the next day and was protesting that he would not go. Stan's normal reaction would have been to banish the child to his room and tell him he'd just better make up his mind to go and that he had no choice. But Stan recognized that this would not really help Tim start kindergarten in the best frame of mind."

For those looking for how it was solved,

Stan sat down and thought, "If I were Tim why would I be excited about going to kindergarten?" He and his wife made a list of all the fun things Tim would do such as finger painting, singing songs, making new friends. Then they put them into action. "We all started finger painting on the kitchen table-my wife, Lil, my other son Bob, and myself, all having fun. Soon Tim was peeping around the corner. Next he was begging to participate. "Oh no! You have to go to kindergarten first to learn how to finger paint." With all the enthusiasm I could muster I went through the list talking in terms he could understand, telling him all the fun he would have in kindergarten. The next morning, I thought I was the first one up. I went downstairs and found Tim sitting sound asleep in the living room chair. "What are you doing here?" I asked. "I'm waiting to go to kindergarten. I don't want to be late." The enthusiasm of our entire family had aroused in Tim an eagerness that no discussion or threat could have possibly accomplished.
Tags: growth

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